BDSM toys for men
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Metal penis cage featuring a secure lock and ergonomic design for safe, long-lasting chastity. Ideal for beginners and experienced users in BDSM and fetish play.
Sturdy metal chastity cage for secure and intense control. Perfect for power play, suitable for both beginners and advanced users.
A unique golden egg for couples filled with exciting toys and accessories. Enjoy love and passion on a new level.
A ticklish mini Erosstar package. The exclusive handcuffs are complemented by a feather tickler. A beautiful addition to a sexy outfit, but also a playful romp in the bedroom.
Tie both her hands in these sexy leather handcuffs. Take a peek into the darkness with the Dark Secret BDSM collection.
Set yourself up nicely so he can put the collar on you. Take a peek into the darkness with a collar from the Dark Secret BDSM collection.
Set yourself up nicely so he can put the collar on you. Take a peek into the darkness with a collar from the Dark Secret BDSM collection.
Sinful play with premium silicone and leather gag. Take a peek into the darkness: the Dark Secret BDSM collection.
Enjoy the luxurious leather eye mask. Take a peek into the darkness with a mask from the Dark Secret BDSM collection.
A beautiful tying set ideal as a gift. 8 toys perfect for newbies. Definitely won't escape your attention.
Pinker than bubblegum, that's how we like it! A beautiful vinyl dress that is a joy to wear. Available sizes S to 2XL.
Take control of your counterpart with this exclusive BDSM set. Two handcuffs and a collar for maximum dominance and submissiveness.
Put on your mask and focus your senses. New sensations of excitement that you can't get with your eyes. Every touch is exciting!
TABOOM stimulation wheel from the Essentials collection. All-metal spiked wheel to indulge in a new type of stimulation. Please your sub with painful but also ticklish pleasure. Just push a little.
Exclusive Erosstar lace wrist cuffs. A beautiful addition to a sexy outfit. Nice design made of soft material. Universal size.
This mask is a clear choice when you are feeling sensual. Mask style bunny comes in handy for roleplay. Universal size. Unisex mask. From the BDSM Line collection for fans of perverted games.
Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
Great bondage kit for novices and also curious. It contains everything you may want to try on the first try. The most used kinky toys. The package lets you taste attractive bdsm erotica. Toys in black.
Bondage set of handcuffs on the wrists and thighs. Handcuffs tastefully imitate real leather. High quality material in elegant red color. Sexy accessory perfect BDSM enjoyment. The set contains 2 handcuffs on the wrists and thighs.
Sensual silicone gag from the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.
Seductive collar with a spice ring foreplay. Choker from the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury collection by TABOOM. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.
Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM Bondage Rope. High quality solid mooring rope with a fine surface. A nice start to the BDSM world of bonding. Suitable for beginners and experienced. Length 10 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.
Robust black cuffs with metal strap and adjustable length. A high-quality metal buckle will ensure a comfortable grip. Made of vegan leather. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the fullest with Fetish Submissive cuffs.
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic and metal. It effectively prevents you from getting an erection. The black glossy design is elegant. The set includes several rings, a metal lock with keys and more. Luxury packaging.
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic and metal. It effectively prevents you from getting an erection. The black glossy design is elegant. The set includes several rings, a metal lock with keys and more. Luxury packaging.
Strong hemp rope on Shibari with 3 resistant cores. EasyToys Hemp Bondage Rope with a total length of 10 meters. Made purely of natural materials. Load capacity up to 200 kg. Fray-proof closed ends.
Discover new corners of erotic games with the You2Toys Love Swing hanging love swing. Swing into a vortex of pleasure.
A proper erection ring for proper men. The Fantasy C-Ringz erection ring holds your penis and testicles in place. For maximum performance and a rock-solid erection.
Sinner Gear long silicone dilator with practical loop for handling. Total length 16 cm. Dilator diameter 5 mm. An elegant dilator with a stimulating body. Elastic and flexible. Pleasant to the touch. The waves create a pleasant stimulation.
Stimulation wheel in silver Sinner Gear Pinwheel 1-Wheel. Total length including grip is 17 cm. Made of high quality stainless steel (nickel-free). A firm grip that does not slip and holds naturally. Very sharp spikes.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.